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Friday, April 24, 2015

Grit in Your Craw by Robert Luckadoo (book review)

Grit in Grit in Your Craw
The 8 Strengths You Need to Succeed in Business and in Life
Author:  Robert Luckadoo
Publisher:  Southern Flair Communications
Published:  2015
Genre:  self-help/business
Source:  a copy was provided by Cadence Group Marketing in exchange for an honest and unbiased review.
ISBN:  9780990785606
Available http://www.amazon.com/Grit-Your-Craw-Strengths-Business/dp/0990785602/ref=asap_bc?ie=UTF8


Do you have confidence, discipline and a sense of purpose?  Are you diligent, resilient, tenacious, optimistic and flexible?  We all do, and we all have what it takes to succeed.  All that¹s required is a willingness to dig deep and a personal commitment to achieving your highest goals.  And of course, a little "grit in your craw" as they say in the south. 
 You¹ll be enlightened and entertained as author Robert Luckadoo¹s life stories tug at your heartstrings and inspire you to dig deep inside yourself to find the eight strengths you need to succeed in your personal and professional life.  This book will leave you with a tear in your eye, a big southern smile in your heart, and a recharged desire to be your best and find your true purpose in life.
My Thoughts:
Lately I have been enjoyed a few business and self-help books and you'll be seeing some of the reviews here.  The latest read was Grit in Your Craw by Robert Luckadoo.  It's a quick read which reiterates a lot of what you already know but in context which makes you realize how important diligence, optimism and/or resilience (for example) really is in your personal and business life.
Luckadoo teaches there are eight strengths you can't succeed without.  He doesn't believe in luck, good or bad.  He believes you can create your own fortune and he explains how he did it using eight essential qualities: diligence, tenacity, optimism, flexibility discipline, resilience, confidence and purpose.  Luckadoo has strong Christian values that come through in his writing; but don't worry, he's not preaching to you. These values are the foundation for his success.
His mother is his first example of a role model who taught him diligence, tenacity, and perseverance...she embodied all the traits he adapted for success in his own life.  When he was still in school his father died of a sudden heart attack and his mother, who had stayed at home with the kids, went to school and got her teaching degree.  She went further and got her master's for education.  She continued on as a "postgraduate student in the WCU education administration program."  She taught her children to persevere through the trials and triumphs of life and to focus on their blessings.
A private pilot who learned how to land a Cessna without barrel rolling, even in a cross-wind; a basketball coach; former insurance sales person; geophysicist and racing cars for fun; Luckadoo has worn many hats and has overcome and accomplished a lot.  
"Carry your vision with great pride and enthusiasm.  Go into every day with an optimistic outlook, and always check your troubles at the door to your office....bring lots of energy with you."  - One of his best pieces of advice.
This isn't rocket science, in fact some of it is common to human nature.  All of it can be learned behaviour which makes this book a universal resource. Whether you are looking to succeed in business or in life, Grit in Your Craw is worth the read.






Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Review: Reluctantly Related by Deanna Brann, Ph.D.

Reluctantly Related
Author:  Deanna Brann, Ph.D.
Illustrator: Donald Hoenig
Publisher:  Ambergris Publishing
Published:  2013
Pages: 185 including a questionnaire and a brief biography
Genre:  self-help: relationships
Edition:  ARC

Source:  I received this advanced reader's copy from Rebecca at Cadence Group in exchange for an honest and unbiased review.

With humour, compassion and focus, in-law expert Dr. Deanna Brann shows you step by step how to bring positive, lasting change to your mother-in-law or daughter-in-law (MIL or DIL) relationship.  Her groundbreaking research and powerful techniques have helped women nationwide to live happier, healthier and more peaceful lives with the women in their extended-by-marriage families.


  • Understand why your in-law relationship is so hard
  • Learn powerful tools and techniques to bring peace and lasting change to your in-law relationship
  • Change your relationship without having to confront your in-law

My thoughts:

When I was asked to consider reviewing Reluctantly Related I really wanted to so I could be sure I would be the kind of mother-in-law I wanted to be, not that any of my grown children are married yet but they will be, right?  Reluctantly Related helped me beyond my original intent.  It helped me realize that I, perhaps, am not the most ideal daughter-in-law.  Gasp!

Dr. Deanna Brann eases the reader in by telling her story of a conflict with her daughter-in-law from both her own perspective and then from her DIL's, helping us to see both sides to the story, because there are always two sides, right.

Following which, we are introduced to the three main types of MILs and DILs, not to mention the types of sons-in-law and husbands.  I want to be Comfortable Carla, to have an identity beyond being a mother and to be clear about my new role as mother to a grown son.  I don't want to be, most of all, the Off-the-Wall Wanda!  (see page 74 for clarification).

Now, just so you don't think I am totally to blame in my DIL relationship with my MIL, let me share a couple scenarios.  

MIL comes up, a 6 hour drive, for an extended visit.  Upon viewing our new house she says, "That reminds me.  I have to clean my blinds." Or another visit where she just got out the vacuum and started vacuuming!  My house is not dirty but at the time I had five young kids and little things like dusting were not so important as taking care of our family was, plus I had a full-time job outside the home.  I think I dusted the blinds once a month.  So now I am getting defensive.  See the pattern?
Dr. Brann helps the reader identify patterns. Examining backgrounds of the individuals with case examples, she helps the reader to see beyond their own situations and to better understand the intent behind actions and words.  

Now, understanding that my MIL is likely a Mothering Margaret, I can tolerate her actions a little better and know how to react in a peaceful manner without holding in my temper and later sulking and telling on her to my husband.  Yes, I did that!

So, what began as an endeavour to be a good MIL myself, might just make me become a better and understanding DIL too.  More good than I bargained for.

If you have relationship "issues" or have the same desire as I, to be a good MIL or DIL; I highly recommend Reluctantly Related.  PS Having your husband read it too would be a good thing!





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