"No one can be lonely who has a book for company." ~ Nelle Reagan

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Water Bugs & Dragonflies: Explaining Death to Your Children


Water Bugs & Dragonflies:  
Explaining Death to Young Children
Author: Doris Stickney
Illustrator:  Gloria Claudia Ortiz Hernandez
Published: 1997
Publisher: Pilgrim Press
Pages: 26
ISBN: 978-0829816242
Source:  Borrowed

Waterbugs and Dragonflies is a graceful fable written by Doris Stickney who sought a meaningful way to explain to neighborhood children the death of a five-year-old friend. The small book is beautifully illustrtated by artist Gloria Ortiz Hernandez. (Goodreads)

I picked up this small paperback the other day and, since it is only 26 pages long, quickly flipped through it while admiring the talented illustrations by Gloria Hernandez.  Doris Stickney writes a cute little tale of a water bug community in a pond.  The bugs notice that at times some of their own climb a stem of a plant to the surface of the water, never to be seen again.  Noting this, one little water bug declares that one day he will go to the surface and come back to tell his friends what he finds.

However, the transformation he experiences, from a water bud to a dragonfly, prevents him from breaking the surface of the water to return to his friends.  He has glorious wings and he loves to soar through the air.  He is happy and knows that one day his friends will experience this too and they will understand.

While not told on a spiritual level, this story can be adapted to explain to children, whether with a religious context or not, the concept of death and moving on.  

What I like about this story is the simplicity of the concept.  It is not complex and allows children to visualize the similarities between humans and the characters in this short story.  There is a section at the back to guide parents/caregivers through explaining death in a more spiritual manner, if desired.  Overall, it is a wonderful aid to help children with the loss of a loved one.  




Smart Chicks Kick It

In person, here in Edmonton Alberta, you can see the following authors and get your book(s) signed too:

Kelley Armstrong, Melissa Marr, 
Alllie Condie, Charles de Lint, Beth Revis, Margaret Stohl and Veronica Roth!!

Starting at 6pm, Thursday September 13th at the Chapters on the Westside, you can meet these best-selling teen authors.  There will be prizes, games and more!  Photos may be taken by volunteer staff with the author(s) of your choice.  

Line up early at 9952 - 170th Street!!

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Not Easy to Forget The Forgetting Tree

 The Forgetting Tree
Author:  Tatjana Soli
Publisher:
Published:
Edition: Trade Paperback ARC
Pages:
Source:  Many thanks to TLC Book Tours and the publisher for providing a complimentary copy of The Forgetting Tree.  Receipt of this novel doesn't influence my opinion nor this review.  The opinion expressed here is my own.

When Claire Nagy marries Forster Baumsarg, the only son of prominent California citrus ranchers, she knows she’s consenting to a life of hard work, long days, and worry-fraught nights. But her love for Forster is so strong, she turns away from her literary education and embraces the life of the ranch, succumbing to its intoxicating rhythms and bounty until her love of the land becomes a part of her. Not even the tragic, senseless death of her son Joshua at kidnappers’ hands, her alienation from her two daughters, or the dissolution of her once-devoted marriage can pull her from the ranch she’s devoted her life to preserving.
But despite having survived the most terrible of tragedies, Claire is about to face her greatest struggle: An illness that threatens not only to rip her from her land but take her very life. And she’s chosen a caregiver, the enigmatic Caribbean-born Minna, who may just be the darkest force of all.
Haunting, tough, triumphant, and profound, The Forgetting Tree explores the intimate ties we have to one another, the deepest fears we keep to ourselves, and the calling of the land that ties every one of us together.
My Review:
I can honestly say that The Forgetting Tree was a welcome interruption of my somewhat tedious schedule.  Sure, the books I've read lately have been good but The Forgetting Tree is a step above and beyond!  It's been so easy to totally lose track of time while reading this novel by Tatjana Soli that I almost missed my bus stop today on the way home!!  

The Forgetting Tree is a story of life, of loss and love but it is more. Tatjana begins The Forgetting Tree setting the scene of a young family, working to harvest the most recent crop from their citrus orchard.  The orchard is established, old even, having been passed down through the generations and the story of the beginning of it all from the root stock of one lemon tree served as an anchor for me.  I love to garden so this novel immediately took hold of and kept my attention.  I  could relate to the labours of the harvest, the thrill of seeing and tasting the fruit thereof.  Not that I've worked in an orchard, per se, but you get the idea.

Garden and book lover, The Forgetting Tree appeals on many levels.  And, fellow book lovers, you'll enjoy this quote from page 123:  "Rereading a book was a different experience from coming upon it for the first time.  Especially if it was well-loved, like a favourite piece of music, it was capable of taking you back to a former self."  Just as re-reading a favourite book, the memories of years past linger and take you back to a time previous.  Those memories can foreshadow the future too as we see how time, events, and memories can affect an individual and family alike in this novel, spreading its tentacles wide, even unto those whose lives intersect their own.

A terribly sad event happens near the beginning and it overshadows the rest of the story.  I shed tears.  To lose a child is the saddest of events and the manner in which Claire and Forster lose young Josh is so awful and senseless.  It is a natural tendency to be protective of our children but these circumstances made Claire over-protective to the point of the children feeling imprisoned and eventually drove her husband away.  Then, alone, Claire is told she has cancer.  At the insistence of her two daughters, Claire hires an assistant, Minna, who at first seems to be an answer to prayers.  Time divulges one another's secrets and sadness, drawing these two together. Yet Minna is as mysterious as ever, as if knowing all there was to know, should that be possible, wasn't enough.

"Clare would be loyal to that mystery to the end of her days, because it was identical to the mystery of life, which one loved without ever fully comprehending it."

They learned much from each other but the lesson the most well-learned was there is "beauty in rootedness but Minna taught Claire that another kind of beauty lay in being free." (page 403)  Freedom comes in stages for Claire, as in page 227, when Claire finds she doesn't have to please anyone.  She found a bit of her freedom here.

The two tried to save each other and some might say their efforts failed while others might say they didn't.  Whatever the case, looking beyond the fire of home, the losses, and the renewing of relationships, Claire still kept a watch for Minna's return.  She offered a light to guide the way to "the beginning and the end.  Home."  I love this last part and had to share it because it touched the sentimental woman in me.  Because The Forgetting Tree reached out and touched my very soul, pulling out the sentimentalisms, I shall not easily forget this memorable tale.  Tatjana Soli brought her characters to life, beyond the words upon the page, reaching into my heart and leaving a lingering trace upon my mind I shall not forget.


Tatjana Soli's bestselling debut novel, The Lotus Eaters, was a New York Times Notable Book, a finalist for the Los Angeles TImes Book Prize for first fiction, and won the James Tait Black Prize.  She lives with her husband in Southern California.













Monday, September 10, 2012

Breaking Dawn 2 movie trailer

http://www.cineplex.com/News/Drop-everything-a-new-Breaking-Dawn-Part-2-trailer-is-HERE.aspx?fullsite=1&cmpid=mw_fb_blog

Sunday, September 9, 2012

Coming to Theatres: The Host by Stephanie Meyer




Yes, the very same popular author of the Twilight series, wrote The Host which is coming to theatres March of 2013!!  


While I truly enjoyed the Twilight novels, I was engrossed in The Host!  My daughter, then 17, read it twice!  I can't wait to see this on the big screen!


Saturday, September 8, 2012

Coming This Fall....


Love Anthony
Author:  Lisa Genova
Publisher:  Simon and Schuster
Published:  September 2012
Pages: 320
Edition:  Hardcover
ISBN: 9781439164686


I’m always hearing about how my brain doesn’t work right. . . . But it doesn’t feel broken to me. 


Olivia Donatelli’s dream of a “normal” life shattered when her son, Anthony, was diagnosed with autism at age three. Understanding the world from his perspective felt bewildering, nearly impossible. He didn’t speak. He hated to be touched. He almost never made eye contact. And just as Olivia was starting to realize that happiness and autism could coexist, Anthony died. 

Now she’s alone in a cottage on Nantucket, separated from her husband, desperate to understand the meaning of her son’s short life, when a chance encounter with another woman facing her own loss brings Anthony alive again for Olivia in a most unexpected way. 

Beth Ellis’s entire life changed with a simple note: “I’m sleeping with Jimmy.” Fourteen years of marriage. Three beautiful daughters. Yet even before her husband’s affair, she had never felt so alone. Heartbroken, she finds the pieces of the vivacious, creative person she used to be packed away in a box in her attic. For the first time in years, she uncaps her pen, takes a deep breath, and begins to write. The young but exuberant voice that emerges onto the page is a balm to the turmoil within her, a new beginning, and an astonishing bridge back to herself. 

In a piercing story about motherhood, autism, and love, New York Times bestselling author Lisa Genova offers us two unforgettable women on the verge of change and the irrepressible young boy whose unique wisdom helps them both find the courage to move on.
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I am so excited to read Love Anthony by Lisa Genova!!!  I loved Still Alice and have Left Neglected waiting for me in a box (I just moved).  So many good books releasing this fall, perhaps this will be one of the those you top list for reading!




Friday, September 7, 2012

Only One You by Linda Kranz (children's book review)



Only One You
Author:  Linda Kranz
Published: 2006
Publisher: Cooper Square Publishing
Pages: 32
Edition:  hard cover
Source:  borrowed

There's only one you in this great big world.  Make it a better place.  Adri's mama and papa share some of their wisdom they have gained through the years with their eager son.  Their words, simple and powerful, are meant to comfort and guide him as he goes about exploring the world.  This exquisitely illustrated book explodes with colour and honest insights.  Kranz's uniquely painted rockfish, set against vibrant blue seas, make an unforgettable and truly special impression.  Only One You will inspire parents and children of all ages as they swim through the sea of life. (Amazon)

As a parent it is important to instil feelings of self-worth in our children and this book is an excellent tool to compliment that goal.  I love the easy flow of the wording and the colourful illustrations will be sure to keep your child's attention.  Excellent as a bed-time story or in a moment of need, Only One You is a quick means to reassure your special little one of his/her infinite worth.

I fell in love with this book and I am sure you will too!



Thursday, September 6, 2012

A Cupboard Full of Coats by Yvvette Edwards

A Cupboard Full of Coats
Author: Yvvette Edwards
Publisher: Amistad Publishing
Published: July 2012
Edition:  Trade Paperback
Pages:  277
Source:  Many thanks to TLC Book Tours and the publisher for providing a complimentary copy of A Cupboard Full of Coats.  Receipt of this novel doesn't influence my opinion nor this review.  The opinion expressed here is my own.

Plagued by guilt, paralyzed by shame, Jinx has spent the years since her mother’s death alone, estranged from her husband, withdrawn from her son, and entrenched in a childhood home filled with fierce and violent memories. When Lemon, an old family friend, appears unbidden at the door, he seduces Jinx with a heady mix of powerful storytelling and tender care. What follows is a tense and passionate weekend, as the two join forces to unravel the tragedy that binds them. Jinx has long carried the burden of the past; now, she must relive her mother’s last days, confront her grief head-on, and speak the truth as only she knows it.
Expertly woven and perfectly paced, A Cupboard Full of Coats is both a heartbreaking family drama and a riveting mystery, with a cast of characters who linger in the mind and the heart long after the last page has been turned.  (TLC Book Tours)
My Review:
I like a book that makes you think and A Cupboard Full of Coats does that.  At first I found it difficult to get involved in this novel, but as the story developed I got caught up in the drama of it all.  Jinx (the protagonist and narrator) is not altogether a likeable character, with her self-centred perspectives, but she grows on you.  Lemon is the character who is fully fleshed out and in whom you can see a man with whom you'd like to converse and get to know.  He is flawed, there is no doubt and he readily concedes this, but his purpose in the novel is to help Jinx overcome her feelings of guilt in the death of her mother.  He knows things she doesn't and, though it is fourteen years later, he feels it is his duty to help her so she might heal herself and her family.  
Sometimes a decision can alter lives drastically.  Jinx, Taboo, Berris and Joy all made decisions, bad decisions, that altered everyone's lives.  As I read A Cupboard Full of Coats I experienced a vast array of emotions which certainly is a credit to first time author, Yvvette Edwards.  When an author can make you feel, see and almost taste the bitterness and the sweet, you come away from the story a little different. A bit changed yourself for having read it.  A Cupboard Full of Coats does that.
Yvvette addresses issues that are still somewhat taboo in society to speak of, including domestic violence and teenage pregnancy.  This is the life of Jinx and her family.  It's not always pretty but there is hope and in the end, that is what the readers feel.  Hope for Jinx, her son, and for Lemon.  It is a story of love.
"There were as many types of love as there were people, Lemon was right about that as well.  And my love was like Berris's, to do with ownership and rights, legal-pad-yellow love, camouflaged and cold-blooded and destructive; fine and dandy if you were a single man on the pull for a pretty, rich widow, but I was a mother." (page 219, A Cupboard Full of Coats)
Warning to sensitive readers:  some language, sex, and physical violence
Shortlisted for the Commonwealth Prize, long-listed for the Man Booker Prize and a Kirkus Best Book of the Year



Yvvette Edwards has lived in London all her life. She currently resides in the East End and is married with three children. A Cupboard Full of Coats, her first novel, was longlisted for the Man Booker Prize.
TLC Tour Stops:  
Monday, August 20th: M. Denise C.
Tuesday, August 21st: Book Club Classics!
Tuesday, August 28th: BookNAround
Wednesday, August 29th: Peppermint PhD
Thursday, August 30th: The Feminist Texican [Reads]
Tuesday, September 4th: Shall Write
Wednesday, September 5th: Book Dilettante
Thursday, September 6th: My Bookshelf
Monday, September 10th: The Blog of Lit Wits
Wednesday, September 12th: Chaos is a Friend of Mine
Thursday, September 13th: Reads for Pleasure
Monday, September 17th: A Book Geek

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

A New Novel by Favourite Author Lisa Genova!!!!

Love Anthony by Lisa Genova




Product Details
Gallery Books, September 2012
Hardcover, 320 pages
ISBN-10: 1439164681
ISBN-13: 9781439164686

Saturday, September 1, 2012

Quote of the Day


A man's mind is stretched by a new idea or sensation, and never shrinks back to its former dimensions. 
The author of Autocrat of the Breakfast Table was born on this day in 1809.

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